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PERSEPSI IBU TERHADAP KETERLIBATAN AYAH DALAM PENGASUHAN ANAK USIA DINI Teti Soge, Ellesa Margareth; Kiling-Bunga, Beatriks Novianti; Thoomaszen, Friandry Windisany; Kiling, Indra Yohanes
Intuisi : Jurnal Psikologi Ilmiah Vol 8, No 2 (2016): Juli 2016
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Peran ayah dalam rumah tangga di Indonesia selama ini jauh dari aktivitas merawat dan mendidik anaknya yang masih berusia dini. Keseimbangan peran ayah dan ibu dalam mengasuh anak usia dini (AUD) memiliki sumbangsih penting dalam perkembangan anak secara holistik. Tujuan penelitian ini adalah: 1) untuk mengetahui persepsi ibu terhadap keterlibatan ayah dalam pengasuhan AUD di Kota Kupang, 2) untuk mengetahui upaya para ibu dalam melibatkan ayah atau mendukung terhadap keterlibatan pengasuhan. Penelitian ini dilakukan di Kota Kupang, Provinsi Nusa Tenggara Timur. Metode yang digunakan adalah kualitatif dengan jenis penelitian deskriptif. Partisipan dalam penelitian ini adalah lima orang ibu yang berdomisili di Kota Kupang. Teknik pengumpulan data melalui metode wawancara dan observasi. Berdasarkan hasil penelitian yang telah dilakukan, terlihat bahwa ibu merasa tugas pengasuhan anak adalah tugas besar ibu. Tugas ayah adalah bukan untuk mengasuh anak melainkan mencari nafkah. Waktu yang dihabiskan ayah untuk bersama-sama dengan anak masih sangat kurang. Kurangnya kerjasama serta pemahaman ibu dan ayah dalam pengasuhan anak juga melatarbelakangi minimnya peran ayah dalam pengasuhan. Dukungan dari ibu terhadap ayah yang berkaitan dengan pengasuhan sangat diperlukan untuk perkembangan yang seimbang.Father’s role in household in Indonesia up to now is still far from nurturing and educating their young children. Balance of role between father and mother in raising young children has important contribution in child’s development holistically. This research’s goals are: 1) to understand mother’s perception to father’s involvement in parenting young children in Kupang City: and 2) to know mother’s efforts in involving father or in supporting them to be involved in parenting. This research was done in Kupang City, East Nusa Tenggara Province. Method used was qualitative with descriptive approach. Participants were five mothers resided in Kupang City. Data collection techniques were interview and observation. Results showed that mothers felt that parenting is a big duty for them. Father’s role is not to parenting their children but instead to earn a living. Time spent by fathers to be with their children was still lacking. The lack of cooperation and also father’s and mother’s awareness in child parenting were also serves as cause of the the lack of fathers’ role in parenting. Support from mother to father that is related with parenting is needed for a balanced development process.
POLA ASUH KERAS PADA AYAH DARI ANAK USIA DINI: STUDI DESKRIPTIF Tea, Maria Erista; Thoomaszen, Friandry Windisany; Kiling-Bunga, Beatriks Novianti; Kiling, Indra Yohanes
Intuisi : Jurnal Psikologi Ilmiah Vol 8, No 1 (2016): Maret 2016
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Kasus kekerasan kepada anak yang terjadi di provinsi Nusa Tenggara Timur terbilang tidak sedikit. Perilaku ini banyak dipengaruhi oleh pola asuh yang bertumpu pada pemberian hukuman terutama oleh ayah. Pola asuh keras adalah bentuk pola asuh yang saat bentuk agresi dari orang tua ke anak yang bertujuan untuk menghukum perilaku anak, juga menyebabkan anak mengalami rasa sakit atau tidak nyaman. Studi ini bertujuan untuk memberikan gambaran tentang pola asuh keras dari ayah di Kota Kupang. Metode yang digunakan adalah deskriptif kuantitatif dengan accidental sampling sebagai teknik pengambilan sampel. Partisipan penelitian adalah 159 orang ayah yang memiliki anak usia dini. Data dijabarkan secara deskriptif dan ditabulasi silang dengan data demografik. Hasil penelitian menunjukkan ayah di Kota Kupang memiliki perilaku terkait pola asuh keras yang berada dalam tingkatan sedang dari lima tingkatan dengan persentase 36,47%. Beberapa pola sebaran data dijelaskan di penelitian ini. Keadaan Kota Kupang yang sedang diprogramkan untuk menjadi Kota Layak Anak membuat kesadaran orangtua terutama ayah semakin bertambah untuk menjauhi pola asuh keras yang dapat berujung ke kekerasan pada anak usia dini.Child violence cases happened in East Nusa Tenggara province are more than just a few. These behaviours are influenced by parenting that relies on punishment especially from father. Harsh parenting is a form of parenting when an agression from parent to child that has objective of punishing child’s behaviour, also resulted in pain and discomfort in the child. This study’s objective was to describe the pattern of harsh parenting from fathers in Kupang City. Method used was quantitative descriptive with accidental sampling as the sampling technique. Participants were 159 fathers who have young child. Data were descriptively briefed and cross tabulated with demographic factors. The results showed that fathers in Kupang City have moderate level of harsh parenting from total five levels, with percentage of 36,47%. Some data distribution’s patterns were explained in this research. Kupang City as a city that is being programmed as a child-friendly city made parents’ awareness especially fathers to increase, in order to avoid harsh parenting practices that could leads to violence to young children.
Peran keluarga dalam pemenuhan hak partisipasi anak pada Forum Anak Kota Kupang (FAKK) Thoomaszen, Friandry Windisany
Persona:Jurnal Psikologi Indonesia Vol 6 No 2 (2017): Desember
Publisher : Faculty of Psychology Universitas 17 Agustus 1945 Surabaya

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Abstract                 The fulfillment of children's right to participation in Kupang (East Nusa Tenggara) was still very low. Children only, as object of manipulation, decoration, and symbols in decision-making process. This issue become important for research cause right of participation can help grow up children confidence, communication skill, and social development. This descriptive qualitative study have purpose to describe levels of children’s participation in family. Subjects numbered 15 people consist of eight children aged under 18 years, three facilitators of children’s forum, and four parents. Sources of data are selected based on purposive sampling technique. Data collected by observation, interview, and documentation. The results showed that children assume that family has not been optimally fulfill children's right to participation. Many decisions are made unilaterally by parents, without listening to the opinion of the child first. Kupang society had a patriarchal culture that characteristic in educate children with violent. Children’s  opinions were often not considered, in contrast opinion of the adults were the most appropriate and correct.       Keyword: right of participation, children, parents, children’s forum 
GAMBARAN PATERNAL RESPONSIBILITY DALAM PENGASUHAN ANAK , USIA DINI Benu, Ratoe Carolina; Thoomaszen, Friandry , Windisany; Kiling-Bunga, Beatriks Novianti; Kiling, Indra Yohanes
HUMANITAS Vol 13, No 2: Vol. 13 No. 2 Agustus 2016
Publisher : Universitas Ahmad Dahlan

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AbstractPaternal responsibility is part of father’s involvement on children’s development. Father is expected to fulfill childrens’s need as well as children’s future planning. Paternal responsilibity is an activity that involves several important things such as giving name, choosing school, education, home, religion and children’s finansial management. The present research aimed to explore the father’s role on paternal responsibility dimension on children in early childhood development in Kupang. Data was collected through paternal responsibility questionnaire from 154 respondens as sample. Descriptive – theoaritical approach using cross-tabulation was used to analize the data. Result show that there was a different pattern of father’s involvement based on demographic factors such fathers education, job, age, children’s age, etnics, and birth sequences. Discussions and recommendations are discussed further.Keyword: early childhood, father’s role, parental responsibilityAbstrakPaternal responsibility merupakan salah satu bentuk keterlibatan ayah kepada anak usia dini. Ayah dianggap mampu memahami dan memenuhi kebutuhan dan perkembangan anak, termasuk memberi nafkah dan merencanakan masa depan anak. Paternal responsibility mencakup hal-hal penting bagi anak termasuk nama, sekolah, pendidikan, tempat tinggal,agama dan menggelola keuangan anak. Tujuan penelitian ini adalah untuk mengetahui keterlibatan ayah dalam dimensi paternal responsibility kepada anak usia dini di kota Kupang. Penelitian ini melibatkan 154 responden sebagai sampel. Data dikumpulkan dengan menggunakan angket paternal responsibility dan dianalisis dengan pendekatan analisis teoretik-deskriptif dengan menggunakan tabulasi silang (cross-tabulation) dengan alat bantu Microsoft Office Excel 2007. Hasil analisis data menjukkan ada pola yang berbeda tentang keterlibatan ayah dalam dimensi paternal responsibility ketika ditinjau dari beberapa faktor demografik seperti pendidikan ayah, pekerjaan, usia ayah, usia anak, suku, dan urutan kelahiran anak. Penelitian ini hanyalah eksplorasi awal untuk memperoleh gambaran sederhana akan faktor demografis dalam kaitannya dengan keterlibatan ayah dalam pengasuhan anak usia dini. Rekomendasi yang terkait dengan analisis statistik lanjut akan diberikan dari hasil penelitian awal ini untuk keperluan pengembangan program pelibatan ayah dalam pengasuhan anak usia dini.Kata kunci: anak usia dini, paternal responsibility, peran ayah
Manajemen Stres untuk Menurunkan Kecemasan Menghadapi Ujian Nasional Siswa Sekolah Menengah Pertama Thoomaszen, Friandry W; Murtini, Murtini
HUMANITAS Vol 11, No 2: Agustus 2014
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ABSTRACTStudents experienced anxiety and fear when facing the National Exam because they think it is pressed. In addition, it is caused by the lack of the resources to deal with the final exam. The research aim was tested the stress management training based on the procedure of Stress inoculation training (SIT) in the junior high school students who experienced anxiety facing the final exam.The research hypothesis was that stress management training could reduce the anxiety facing the final exam at the Junior High School students. The scale questionaire used to measure the anxiety. The research method was quasi-experiment. The results of analysis with the mixed ANAVA techniqueshowed that the stress management training by the SIT procedure could significantly decreased anxiety when facing the final exam in junior high school students in Kupang (F = 17.192, p <0.01), with the effective contribution about 86.7%. Junior high school students who had received the stress management training decreased level of anxiety to face the final exam more significantly than those who did not received the stress management training.Key word: adolescence, anxiety, stress management.
PERSEPSI IBU TERHADAP KETERLIBATAN AYAH DALAM PENGASUHAN ANAK USIA DINI Teti Soge, Ellesa Margareth; Kiling-Bunga, Beatriks Novianti; Thoomaszen, Friandry Windisany; Kiling, Indra Yohanes
Intuisi : Jurnal Psikologi Ilmiah Vol 8, No 2 (2016): Juli 2016
Publisher : Jurusan Psikologi, Fakultas Ilmu Pendidikan, Universitas Negeri Semarang

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.15294/intuisi.v8i2.8617

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Peran ayah dalam rumah tangga di Indonesia selama ini jauh dari aktivitas merawat dan mendidik anaknya yang masih berusia dini. Keseimbangan peran ayah dan ibu dalam mengasuh anak usia dini (AUD) memiliki sumbangsih penting dalam perkembangan anak secara holistik. Tujuan penelitian ini adalah: 1) untuk mengetahui persepsi ibu terhadap keterlibatan ayah dalam pengasuhan AUD di Kota Kupang, 2) untuk mengetahui upaya para ibu dalam melibatkan ayah atau mendukung terhadap keterlibatan pengasuhan. Penelitian ini dilakukan di Kota Kupang, Provinsi Nusa Tenggara Timur. Metode yang digunakan adalah kualitatif dengan jenis penelitian deskriptif. Partisipan dalam penelitian ini adalah lima orang ibu yang berdomisili di Kota Kupang. Teknik pengumpulan data melalui metode wawancara dan observasi. Berdasarkan hasil penelitian yang telah dilakukan, terlihat bahwa ibu merasa tugas pengasuhan anak adalah tugas besar ibu. Tugas ayah adalah bukan untuk mengasuh anak melainkan mencari nafkah. Waktu yang dihabiskan ayah untuk bersama-sama dengan anak masih sangat kurang. Kurangnya kerjasama serta pemahaman ibu dan ayah dalam pengasuhan anak juga melatarbelakangi minimnya peran ayah dalam pengasuhan. Dukungan dari ibu terhadap ayah yang berkaitan dengan pengasuhan sangat diperlukan untuk perkembangan yang seimbang.Father’s role in household in Indonesia up to now is still far from nurturing and educating their young children. Balance of role between father and mother in raising young children has important contribution in child’s development holistically. This research’s goals are: 1) to understand mother’s perception to father’s involvement in parenting young children in Kupang City: and 2) to know mother’s efforts in involving father or in supporting them to be involved in parenting. This research was done in Kupang City, East Nusa Tenggara Province. Method used was qualitative with descriptive approach. Participants were five mothers resided in Kupang City. Data collection techniques were interview and observation. Results showed that mothers felt that parenting is a big duty for them. Father’s role is not to parenting their children but instead to earn a living. Time spent by fathers to be with their children was still lacking. The lack of cooperation and also father’s and mother’s awareness in child parenting were also serves as cause of the the lack of fathers’ role in parenting. Support from mother to father that is related with parenting is needed for a balanced development process.
POLA ASUH KERAS PADA AYAH DARI ANAK USIA DINI: STUDI DESKRIPTIF Tea, Maria Erista; Thoomaszen, Friandry Windisany; Kiling-Bunga, Beatriks Novianti; Kiling, Indra Yohanes
Intuisi : Jurnal Psikologi Ilmiah Vol 8, No 1 (2016): Maret 2016
Publisher : Jurusan Psikologi, Fakultas Ilmu Pendidikan, Universitas Negeri Semarang

Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.15294/intuisi.v8i1.8551

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Kasus kekerasan kepada anak yang terjadi di provinsi Nusa Tenggara Timur terbilang tidak sedikit. Perilaku ini banyak dipengaruhi oleh pola asuh yang bertumpu pada pemberian hukuman terutama oleh ayah. Pola asuh keras adalah bentuk pola asuh yang saat bentuk agresi dari orang tua ke anak yang bertujuan untuk menghukum perilaku anak, juga menyebabkan anak mengalami rasa sakit atau tidak nyaman. Studi ini bertujuan untuk memberikan gambaran tentang pola asuh keras dari ayah di Kota Kupang. Metode yang digunakan adalah deskriptif kuantitatif dengan accidental sampling sebagai teknik pengambilan sampel. Partisipan penelitian adalah 159 orang ayah yang memiliki anak usia dini. Data dijabarkan secara deskriptif dan ditabulasi silang dengan data demografik. Hasil penelitian menunjukkan ayah di Kota Kupang memiliki perilaku terkait pola asuh keras yang berada dalam tingkatan sedang dari lima tingkatan dengan persentase 36,47%. Beberapa pola sebaran data dijelaskan di penelitian ini. Keadaan Kota Kupang yang sedang diprogramkan untuk menjadi Kota Layak Anak membuat kesadaran orangtua terutama ayah semakin bertambah untuk menjauhi pola asuh keras yang dapat berujung ke kekerasan pada anak usia dini.Child violence cases happened in East Nusa Tenggara province are more than just a few. These behaviours are influenced by parenting that relies on punishment especially from father. Harsh parenting is a form of parenting when an agression from parent to child that has objective of punishing child’s behaviour, also resulted in pain and discomfort in the child. This study’s objective was to describe the pattern of harsh parenting from fathers in Kupang City. Method used was quantitative descriptive with accidental sampling as the sampling technique. Participants were 159 fathers who have young child. Data were descriptively briefed and cross tabulated with demographic factors. The results showed that fathers in Kupang City have moderate level of harsh parenting from total five levels, with percentage of 36,47%. Some data distribution’s patterns were explained in this research. Kupang City as a city that is being programmed as a child-friendly city made parents’ awareness especially fathers to increase, in order to avoid harsh parenting practices that could leads to violence to young children.
PERSEPSI AYAH TENTANG PENGASUHAN ANAK USIA DINI Bernadete Dewi Bussa; Beatriks Novianti Kiling-Bunga; Friandry Windisany Thoomaszen; Indra Yohanes Kiling
Jurnal Sains Psikologi Vol 7, No 2 (2018)
Publisher : Universitas Negeri Malang

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Ayah turut memberikan kontribusi penting bagi perkembangan anak. Walaupun penelitian tentang peran ayah sudah semakin terus meningkat selama beberapa dekade terakhir ini tetapi hasilnya masih kontradiksi. Oleh karena itu penelitian ini bertujuan untuk mengetahui gambaran deskriptif persepsi ayah dalam pengasuhan anak usia dini. Hasil penelitian ini menunjukkan bahwa para ayah telah memahami makna pengasuhan sebagai bentuk keterlibatan ayah dalam mengasuh anak usia dini. Meskipun orientasi pengasuhan yang dimaksud para partisipan adalah interaksi fisik dan tanggung jawab, pengasuhan sudah dipahami sebagai tanggung jawab bersama antara ayah dan ibu (coparenting). Motivasi ayah dalam mengasuh sendiri masih didasarkan karena alasan bisa melakukan pengasuhan jika ibu berhalangan. Jika ayah melakukan pengasuhan dengan alasan yang demikian maka pengasuhan yang seperti ini menciptakan jarak antara ayah dan anak, akibatnya perkembangan anak selanjutnya tidak optimal. Implikasi dari temuan penelitian ini dibahas dengan tinjauan teori serta penelitian sebelumnyaKata Kunci: pengasuhan, ayah, anak usia dini, peran substitusiDOI : http://dx.doi.org/10.17977/um023v7i22018p126
PARENTAL PARTICIPATION IN PROVIDING ANTI-CORRUPTION EDUCATION TO CHILDREN AS AN EFFORT TO PREVENT CORRUPTION IN THE CITY OF KUPANG Friandry Windisany Thoomaszen; Sance Mariana Tameon
Asia Pacific Fraud Journal Vol 3, No 2 (2018): Volume 3, No.2nd Edition (July-December 2018)
Publisher : Association of Certified Fraud Examiners Indonesia Chapter

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Corruption is a very complex problem experienced by the Indonesian people. Compared to other provinces, Nusa Tenggara Timur (NTT) Province was the second most corrupt province in Indonesia. Therefore, this study focuses on cases of corruption that occur in Kupang, the capital of NTT province. There are many factors that support the spread of corruption cases in NTT. One of the factors highlighted in this study is the lack of understanding of the community, especially the family, in providing anti-corruption value, which is integrated with Protestant values, to children. The general purpose of this study was to find out the extent of parental participation in providing anti-corruption education to late childhood, as an effort to prevent corruption cases in Kupang. This study used a quantitative approach with descriptive survey research methods. Sampling was done using random sampling techniques. Data analysis was performed using descriptive statistics and cross-tabulation. Research subjects were 103 Protestant parents having children and living in Kupang City. The results show that parents’ understanding of corruption is 93.20%. This means that most parents have a correct and accurate understanding of corruption. However, the parents’ understanding of anti-corruption education is only 53.39%. 67.96% or 70 parents do not understand about nine (9) anti-corruption values, and only 32.03% or 30 parents understand them. Different levels of parents’ education lead to differences in parental activity in providing anti-corruption education, especially in the depth of value and the material.
THE WAY THE LOCAL GOVERNMENT WORKS TO FIGHT AGAINST CORRUPTION IN KUPANG CITY IN THE PERSPECTIVES OF GENERATIONS X AND Y Friandry Windisany Thoomaszen; Sance Mariana Tameon
Asia Pacific Fraud Journal Vol 5, No 1: Volume 5, No. 1st Edition (January-June 2020)
Publisher : Association of Certified Fraud Examiners Indonesia Chapter

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Generations Y and Z are the next generations of the Indonesian nation, including in the process of preventing and eradicating corruption. These two generations tend to have the same weaknesses, that is, the tendency to be apathetic towards the government and politics. This apathy can be an obstacle to eradicating corruption cases in the future when these generations occupy strategic positions. The aim of the study is to find out the views of generations Y and Z on the way the local government works to eradicate corruption cases in Kupang City. The researchers use a quantitative approach, with descriptive survey research methods. The research subjects are 78 Christians from the generation Y and Z who live in Kupang City. The sampling technique used is stratified random sampling which is spread using the google forms (online) format. The results of the study show that generation Y and Z are sensitive to cases of corruption that are taking place in their domicile, Kupang City. Out of 78 subjects of generation Y and Z, the majority or  42 subjects answer that the level of corruption in Kupang City is at a severe level. Generation Z also looks more familiar with Nine anti-corruption values than generation Y. There are various solutions offered by generations Y and Z for regional leaders to overcome corruption in Kupang City. However, the solution to the campaign is still considered to be less effective in dealing with corruption for generation Y and Z. It is recommended that local governments see and use the opinions of generation Y and Z to improve themselves and the anti-corruption system and involve generation Y and Z to prevent, fight, and eradicate corruption cases actively both in real actions and in cyberspace (social media). Anti-corruption behavior conveyed to generations Y and Z must be more attractive, modern, and in accordance with the characteristics of these two generations who have a dependency on cyberspace.
Co-Authors Beatriks Novianti Kiling-Bunga Beatriks Novianti Kiling-Bunga Beatriks Novianti Kiling-Bunga, Beatriks Novianti Benu, Ratoe Carolina Bernadete Dewi Bussa Ellesa Margareth Teti Soge, Ellesa Margareth Indra Yohanes Kiling Indra Yohanes Kiling Kiling, Indra Yohanes Kiling-Bunga, Beatriks Novianti Maria Erista Tea, Maria Erista Murtini, Murtini Tameon, Sance Mariana Yohana Krista Eka Tafuli