Masyarakat Desa Bondo, Jepara, dikenal dengan iklim toleransinya yang kuat. Dalam konteks kehidupan keluarga, umat Islam dan Kristen menyumbangkan karakteristik pola asuh yang inklusif. Dengan pendekatan deskriptif-kualitatif melalui pisau analisis teori psikologi perkembangan anak dan teori kepemimpinan dari Hersey dan Blanchard, penelitian ini bertujuan untuk menampilkan model pendidikan dan pola asuh orang tua dari keluarga seagama dan beda agama. Dari hasil observasi partisipatoris dan wawancara mendalam, dapat disimpulkan bahwa bentuk pendidikan di Desa Bondo memunculkan pelbagai model, di antaranya model pendidikan keteladanan, model pendidikan inklusif, model pendidikan kedisiplinan, model pendidikan dengan memberi hukuman, model pendidikan kemandirian, dan model pendidikan religius. Selain itu, terdapat perbedaan pola asuh orang tua terhadap anak antara keluarga beda agama dan keluarga seagama. Bagi keluarga seagama (Kristen dengan Kristen), pola asuh yang mendominasi ialah permisif, demokratis dan otoriatif. Sedangkan pola asuh keluarga seagama (Islam dengan Islam) relatif sama dengan pola asuh yang diterapkan oleh keluarga beda agama (Kristen dengan Islam) yaitu demokratis, otoriter, dan otoritatif. Model pendidikan dan pola asuh orang tua tersebut berpengaruh signifikan terhadap kesadaran toleransi dalam diri anak-anak di Desa Bondo. (The people of Bondo, Jepara, are known for their strong tolerance situation. In the context of family life, Muslims and Christians contribute to the characteristics of inclusive parenting. Using a descriptive-qualitative approach through the analysis of psychological theories of child development and leadership theories from Hersey and Blanchard, this study aims at displaying the educational model and parenting of parents of religious families and different religions. Based on the results of participatory observation and interviews, it can be concluded that there are several models of education in Bondo, including the model of exemplary education, the model of inclusive education, the model of disciplinary education, the education model by giving punishment, the education model of independence, and the model of religious education. In addition, there are differences in parenting parents towards children between families of different religions and religious families. For family members of the same religion (Christian to Christian), parenting that dominates is permissive, democratic and authoritative. Whereas parenting families of religions (Islam and Islam) are relatively similar to those adopted by families of different religions (Christianity with Islam) namely democratic, authoritarian, and authoritative. The model of education and parenting has a significant effect on awareness of tolerance in children in Bondo.)